I have a really close friend that has been seeing this guy for 4 years and she just recently found out he had 2 kids and that he still pays his baby mama's bills. She doesn't want to make a big deal about it because she's afraid that he may leave her and go live with his baby mama.
I have tried to explain to her that he was wrong for keeping this info from her and that if he would hide this type of information... then what else could he be keeping from her, I told her that in order for the relationship to grow he would need to be honest with her and tell her about his past.
OKAY!!!
My friend called me in tears! saying, that she took my advice and told him he needed to keep it real about his past and now he's mad with her and says that if she can't trust him... then he would move out!
Is it me or is he tryna make this her fault because his lieing a** got caught and he wants to have his cake, ice cream, gum, candy and all that good stuff..lol
This is a example of a man that wanted to keep it good on the other side of town just in case things went bad on his side of town.
Girl, tell him to KICK ROCKS!! and be with his baby mama!
Honey I would leave him becuz he's not worth the stress.
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